*********Please note that due to high demand the counselling waiting list is currently closed as of 4 March 2020. We won't take any new referrals. This will be reviewed on monthly basis. The waiting list for domestic abuse counselling is still open.*********
If something is troubling you, it can be worth spending some time thinking and talking about why this may be happening. The LGBT community might have many issues it has to deal with including:
- Lack of confidence: worried about failing, never feeling good enough, feeling judged
- Depression: feeling isolated, lonely, empty, tearful, unloved, suicidal
- Destructive behaviour: harming yourself, abusive relationships, alcohol, drugs
- Bereavement: loss, anger, loneliness, sadness & depression
- Relationship difficulties: partners, sexual and emotional intimacy issues, family and friends, colleagues, commitment, jealousy, abuse
- Family issues: partners, children, parenting, separation and divorce, homesickness
- Sexuality: coming out to yourself and others, exploring your beliefs and attitudes to gay sex and the "scene", exploring your sexual identity and how it affects your lifestyle choices
- Gender: living as trans or non-binary, questioning your gender, transitioning, transphobia
What we offer
- One-to-one counselling sessions to LGBT people and for those who may be questioning their sexual orientation or gender identity
- 12 weeks of counselling with a volunteer counsellor who is either fully qualified or working towards qualification/accreditation. All our counsellors, supervisors and assessors work within the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) code of ethics, or an equivalent professional body. Counsellors who volunteer their time for London Friend all identify as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, Intersex or Queer.
- Financial contribution: As we incur costs, such as building overheads and the provision of professional clinical supervision for counsellors, we invite people accessing the counselling service to make a regular financial contribution in accordance with their income. This will be discussed at your assessment.
LGBT Domestic Abuse Counselling
- As part of the London LGBT Domestic Abuse Partnership we can offer free counselling to LGBT people who have experienced domestic abuse.
- If you would like to make a referral into the LGBT Domestic Abuse Partnership, call the National LGBT Domestic Violence Helpline on: 0300 999 5428 or 0800 9995428 or contact firstname.lastname@example.org for more information.
- Contact us via telephone on 020 7833 1674 and, if counselling is appropriate, we will meet you for an initial assessment interview from which together we can agree an appropriate way forward.
- Please note that our counselling service is very popular and experiences a heavy demand; as such we operate a waiting list, and it may be several weeks or months before we are able to offer you an initial assessment. You may wish to access our coming out or social groups whilst you are waiting. If you would like to speak to somebody for support whilst you are waiting you can contact our partners Switchboard seven days a week. You can also try ELOP or the Metro Centre or Spectra who provide LGBT counselling services in London.