COUNSELLING
If something is troubling you it can be worth spending some time thinking and talking about why this may be happening. The LGBTIQ community has many issues it has to deal with including:
- Lack of confidence: worried about failing, never feeling good enough, feeling judged.
- Depression: feeling isolated, lonely, empty, tearful, unloved, suicidal.
- Destructive behaviour: harming yourself, abusive relationships, alcohol, drugs.
- Bereavement: loss, anger, loneliness, sadness & depression.
- Relationship difficulties: partners, sexual and emotional intimacy issues, family and friends, colleagues, commitment, jealousy, abuse.
- Family issues: partners, children, parenting, separation and divorce, homesickness.
- Sexuality: coming out to yourself and others, exploring your beliefs and attitudes to gay sex and the "scene", exploring your sexual identity and how it affects your lifestyle choices.
WHAT WE OFFER:
ONE-TO-ONE COUNSELLING SESSIONS
- to LGBTIQ people and for those who may be questioning their sexual orientation or gender identity.
- 12 weeks of counselling with a volunteer counsellor who is either fully qualified or working towards qualification/accreditation. All our counsellors, supervisors and assessors work within the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) code of ethics, or equivalent professional body. Counsellors who volunteer their time for London Friend all identify as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, Intersex or Queer.
- For more information, please go here
LGBT DOMESTIC ABUSE COUNSELLING
- London Friend has provided specialist domestic abuse counselling for LGBTQ+ people since 2016 as part of the London LGBT Domestic Abuse Partnership (DAP). The DAP is a partnership of LGBTQ+ organisations led by Galop and working with Stonewall Housing.
- The funding for this service ends in March 2026 and we are now unable to take any new referrals for specialist domestic abuse counselling.
Information about London Friend’s general counselling service can be found here. - To access further specialist LGBTQ+ support for domestic abuse you can contact the National Helpline for LGBT+ Victims and Survivors of Abuse and Violence operated by Galop on 0800 999 5428 or email help@galop.org.uk
COUNSELLING GROUPS
- New Service – We are now offering Online Group Counselling to the LGBTQ+ Community (separated by Gender), where you can explore the issues you want to raise with other like minded people, in a safe and confidential space.
- Find out more information and refer yourself here
Please note that our counselling service is very popular and experiences a heavy demand; as such we operate a waiting list, and it may be several weeks before we are able to offer you an initial assessment. You may wish to access our coming out or social groups whilst you are waiting. If you would like to speak to somebody for support whilst you are waiting you can contact our partners Switchboard seven days a week. You can also try ELOP or the Metro Centre or Spectra who provide LGBTIQ counselling services in London.
